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A Life unfolding from your own authority, not relying on external guidance

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Here is a chance to gauge yourself. Where are you on the spectrum described below?  

Your life definitions are a result of the teachings that you follow/recite.  What road are they taking you down?  Are you permanently on a high flying disc?  Have you ever given it enough time, (sustaining openness) to see if openness is a self-reinforcing feedback loop?

1. I have never given much time to listen to Ester Hicks.  But I want to use this audio to demonstrate a life of openness, which as she describes it, leads to ever-more openness.

She calls it living on a “high flying disc”. You know it because it feels good. She mentions that you are choosing your conversations, (with self and others) meaning that you choose your thoughts.  Maybe you’re not choosing the exact content of thoughts, but choosing the quality of thoughts.  

2. This is what I have been calling a life lived on its own authority. You need nothing else. No finger pointing at the moon. 

Thoughts are either closing or opening.  She defines the “vibration” of the thoughts, which is one step removed, and makes it too esoteric and kind of unapproachable.  How are you going to decide, that now you are going to raise up your vibration???  

Ditch the word vibration and just look at bodily contraction.   Beliefs (life definitions) played on the mind are thoughts, life definitions played on the body are your level of contraction.  IT”S EASY.

 

3. She makes it very difficult with many fancy concepts.  Without them, people might be sustaining openness in great numbers. She says mystifying things like:

a) In sync with infinite intelligence, how do you do that?

b) A high flying disc effects your point of attraction (like you have to be met by something coming down the road).

c) Your emotional inner guidance system works by noting the difference between you and your invariable source.

d) The inner never deviates, so you see the vibrational variance.

4. For me there is a much more practical route to take.  Just look into these beliefs which take you continuously down a limiting path.

a) Yes, I go with what feels bad so that I can stay with my friends, or with the dinner conversation.

b) There is a lot of conspiracy out there, shouldn’t we discuss it? 

c) If someone is mean, they should get that reflection back.

d) Then I want to teach someone a lesson.

e) I haven’t figured out that the one I am teaching doesn’t care, and only I get damaged?

f) When certain things occur to me, I have the right to react without thinking.

5.  It’s all your thoughts my friends. The best way to put non-contracting thoughts into practice is to call them an experiment.  We have gone the anxiety route for decades, and we see the kind of life that it produces.  What would it be like if my thoughts were different?

6.  I suppose that we can mention the value of flowering in life.  Some will argue that this puts too much premium on change for the better. Then I judge that my changes are not enough, or they are going the wrong way, and I feel worse.

Change is relative, perhaps to how much you're enjoying what is here. I remember times in my life where I wanted to slow down change, because I was enjoying my life at the moment so much.  (Please give me more time to love this.) Life was great after the changes too. 

We can also say that frozen in the movie “Ground Hog Day” is not pleasant to anyone. Of course greater and greater velocities are taken as catastrophe.  So the rate of acceptable (pleasant) change is different for everyone.

Then people are also visited by catastrophe.  Doesn’t that give me the right to react in a negative way?  Well let’s just stay with the practical.  Does that negative reaction help the situation in any way?  I think that you’ll be hard pressed to see where it does?

7. In this scenario what is the drive for enlightenment? It is a desire to jump off the wagon (to who knows where).  Basically you’re not enjoying anything about yourself.  The whole foundation of the enlightenment drive is skewed by dissatisfaction.  

Maybe you have had a spiritual experience or satori, that has demonstrated there is something way more.  I think that it is always your responsibility to put that experience in its place, (as the gift that it was) and manage it such that all of life doesn’t go sour.

For me this kind of seeking is a bogus activity assured to produce misery.  If true enlightenment is an accident, then let it happen when it happens.  That is soon enough for me.

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Flashback with Nick Gancitano
Putting Athletes in the Zone

 Nick is moving into different venues with his new book "The Edge of Glory", which I am planning to read to see what he is getting at.

 

He is thinking to de-emphasize videos from the past about traditional satsang.  SO I LISTENED TO THIS AFTER 3 YEARS.

 

Wow, I think we were brilliant.  I am amazed that my questions back then were right on with what I know to be true today.  I was moving to establish that the human instrument is adequate to live on its own authority.  We don't need a finger pointing at the moon. That finger is our main problem, in that it sets up an irrefutable judgment point. (I'm not there yet.)

 

To come to this pont of view you have to be persuaded that your life as it is, is significant for you.  It is not that hard a task to get on that positive track.

 

Thanks for watching again.

Nick and I danced this dance, knowing each other only 5 minutes

Blessing of Abode through Buddhist Metta (Loving Kindness)

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Listen to this Blessing that Maggie Wilkins organized for her new house in Chiang Mai, Thailand, March 2013.

Feel it deeply and let it spill over into your house and your life.  Loving Kindness from the whole of the Buddhist world. (20 minutes)

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Here's a taste of a breakthrough discussion
Yoke of Many Distorted Principles

1:28 min
Propelled to Discuss Life, What For?

4:27 min

Can we inspire couples to Deepen in Love? Let's try it

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Our New F.B. page is called "The Art of Pairing-Extraordinary Relationships".  We would like to run Recorded Hangouts with 2 or 3 couples.

If you and your partner are interested to give it a try contact us with email or gmail chat, at  nevernotheretv@gmail.com  

 

Let's make everything that we have ever known as a spiritual truth, also be totally practical in our day to day lives. Help us consider what works with your life. Great Love

Here's a direct link to our new Facebook "Welcome Page / Fan Page"

Thanks, Richard Miller and Reenah Sun

 



What is the basis for living together without irritation and upset? What would it be like to walk past reaction and not be afraid of old trigger points?

 

We are finding that this field of freedom is easily available with just a few hints and parameters and a little bit of practice.   Yes, we know how easily it is to flow with reaction and build all the evidence of transgression.   Also we now know that we don't have to follow these threads,

(and we can still do it if we feel particularly resistant today.)

 

But what a great freedom it is to know that we can come out of it at will.  What is left without our reactions?  It is a field of love and awe at the beauty of another person.  It is a peace and calmness, with nothing particular to believe in and a greater effectiveness in whatever we choose to engage in.

  Margot Ridler makes some Observations

 

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What is it like living with Reenah?

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Reenah Sun is unique for me, in that I don't feel any blame from her.  She inquires into her reactions and traces the thought thread back until they deconstruct.  In that atmosphere, I am able to do the same.  We receive each other as the miracle that we are, not by creating a new concept of "holy miracle", but by moving off of all concepts.  What is left is holy without any word.  We are both committed to creating life from that point of no view.

 Awakened Living doesn't mean no Reactions

 

We Justify each and every Distasteful Thing, Our Pain

 

 

But how long do you stay stuck in the mud?  I can remember times in my life were the same bog had me for 10 years.  Now I don't care to give that dirt 10 minutes.
 

Explain, explain, explain.  Does it do any good all our self justification, or is that the mechanism of our self abuse?

Spiritual "not Knowing" has no reasons nor justifications.

 

 

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Reading Sally Anderson FreeFall

 We make discoveries by relaxing the meaning, reasons and justifications we give in our lives.  The urge to give meaning is actually how we make ourselves stuck in our in our apparent identity.  Strange how we are more prone to give meaning to what is threatening than to what is pleasing.  So our stuckness takes on a negative spin.

 

This relaxing of the temptation to give meaning allows new insights to come in.  What I am discovering also becomes more apparent to me as I am able to give distinctions or words to what I see.  And this condition also brings to my attention the works of others that have articulated what I am seeing, but in a better way than I can yet communicate.

 

I have been digesting Sally Anderson's book FREEFALL since late June and her words are exactly what I am ready to hear.  See if they make sense to you as I read a few pages from this most powerful of books.

Meet Giri Samudra and Susan Gordon

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 I have often said that 3-way dialogues with "every day people" are more rewarding for me that so called teacher interviews.  Again this proves true as I believe we have reached a new softness in accepting and receiving each other.  I stood in my heart throughout this conversation, not because of anything that I was doing, but because of who the three of us are in kindness, openness and acceptance.

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Conversation for Possibilities

On Sunday September 2nd at 7:00 pm Eastern Daylight time David Parrish and I will launch a hangout to present a conversation for possibilities that we feel can change the structure of our lives and allow us to be actively involved in whatever each one feels is good about living.  This is a presentation and not a free flow discussion.  Time will be allotted for feedback and questions.

  

The principles come from a course on leadership, which material is freely given to all.  This material has an objective that is different from our typical workshops that we might have known.  It considers the parameters of leadership which we think are the identical principles to what can be effective in leading our own life.  

 

Our intention is to present certain key ideas from this material which we believe will also undoubtedly already show up in your life.  With these premises you will directly see what is effective and what is binding and be empowered to make some adjustments that will produce more freedom and satisfaction.  This insight will give you courage to engage with your interests and develop a passion.   It will be the prime energy behind a new direction that will remove all doubt and hesitation and give you less anxiety and more peace.

 

 

 

 

 Email producer@nevernothere.com if you want to be in the conversation and have already joined google plus and downloaded the google audio/video module.  Otherwise watch the broadcast live on http://www.youtube.com/user/NeverNotHere

Objectives and Video Demonstration

Free Discussion on how to proceed with these objectives

 

Could I Answer Spiritual Speak Listening Filters?

 

   

 

Living beyond my means, becoming a strange hobby

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Hello everyone.  Some of you know that I have shared this video journal for over 5 years.  While it may have been insightful for some or taken as an excuse for grabbing attention by others, I haven't really been interested nor able to stop.  Well, I like to talk with people and this video stuff is easy for me. Easy up to the point that I have used it.

We have covered a lot of ground and yet we haven't had to form any special allegiances.  We don't have to follow any pre-set teaching nor support any line of reasoning nor claim to the transcendence of reasoning.  We are free to move with whatever urge we sense.

Increasingly I want to move where I see traction with all phases of life. A teaching must offer more than relief from personal suffering. What about embodying an actve creative force, what about making a visible contribution to some sector of society? How about feeling the direct connection with the unfolding of my life?

 

 

I believe that I am on the trail to model some radical shifts in my own life. If you like what is happening in this alternative view please come along. I also invite you to help out. If I am able to pull off a visa for living in Australia, there will be a period of no work permission, like now. This puts me increasingly behind in my living expenses, which are pretty modest anyway. I have never yet asked that much for donations. So without asking, they have never been a determining factor. Now I can feel right about asking for help. Please see on the button above how donations come through PayPal. You don't even need an account because you can interact with PayPal through a credit card.

And Thanks

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